Grow through grief
A 3 or 6 month one-to-one coaching journey for life’s big transitional moments of ending. Whether you’re navigating grief from a loved one dying, career ending or redundancy, a big life shift - and questioning what really matters now. This is your space to find presence with the difficult. To reconnect with your values, your voice, and the next chapter that’s calling.
Every grief coaching journey is different, and this isn’t a one-size-fits-all programme. It will be co-created by us to be as bespoke and unique as you are. Here are some core pillars that we might explore together:
Let’s make space for what’s ending - whether that’s a loss, a role, an identity. Through practices that will deepen your presence and awareness through all that life brings including your grief. So that you can process what it means with my gentle, compassionate support. You don’t need to “move on.” You get to move forwards with your grief and the deeper understanding of values, purpose and self that it brings.
Reconnect with what truly matters to you now - not what used to matter, or what others expect. We'll unearth the inner compass of values that drive you, name and let go of what feels off, and support you to live more intentionally and aligned to your truest self.
You’re not broken, and don’t need to be “fixed”. You’re in a transformation, and parts of this can be painful, uncomfortable and difficult. Together, we’ll make meaning from the difficult and create space for your next chapter to take shape - one where you don’t just survive the shift and pain of grief, you GROW through it.
Understanding what matters the most to you in this lifetime. From your relationships, to your career, to creativity, to how you spend your time… We’ll explore what’s calling you forward - with tools to gently dream bigger, play, find balance and build a next chapter that actually fits YOU.
“Having recently said goodbye to two immediate family members within quick succession, I found myself in a headspace that was proving quite tricky to navigate on a day to day basis. Dealing with the sadness of two losses and working through the grieving process whilst maintaining a high-pressure job within the entertainment industry (and not wishing to take time off work) was an interesting dichotomy to say the least. Together we honoured and allowed those feelings that I had been experiencing to just come out in a calm, peaceful, safe and nurturing space.
I left feeling incredibly light and genuinely uplifted, with a clear gear change in work and life, and how I was feeling in terms of the emotional weight I was carrying. The session was not about fixing anything or providing a solution to grief, it was more about taking the time to honour your own feelings within a safe space to express them alongside Tanya's expertise in this field. ”
Lauren Cornelius, BBC actor, VO artist and Freelancer
You’re feeling the weight of grief, whether from a recent loss or one a long time ago. Grief is lifelong and you’re never too late to tend to it…
You've spent years achieving, holding it all together, putting everyone else first… and now you’re ready to feel more.
You’re navigating burnout, or a life that feels out of sync with your values and what matters the most.
You're questioning your career, your pace, your priorities - wondering, “Is this really it?”
You crave more presence, purpose and alignment in your daily life, but don’t know how to get there without blowing up your whole world.
You’ve outgrown who you thought you were, but aren’t sure who you’re becoming yet.
Meet Tanya - your Grief Coach
“Grief has catalysed the biggest shifts in my life. Now, I help people to turn life’s tender endings into opportunities for transformation and growth.”
I’m Tanya, and I help high achieving, heart led people navigate life’s defining moments. Including death and endings we didn’t choose, the transitions we didn’t see coming, the grief that we carry with us for life, and the quiet longing for something more.
I handed my notice in on my 14 year corporate career at the top of the entertainment industry as a global Head of Marketing for Formula 1 due to the life-altering experience of grief at a miscarriage in 2021. A lightning bolt moment, which made me question if I was still living my dream, or someone else’s?
I walked away to create a life that finally felt deeply aligned to me through my coaching and cultural consultancy business. Before I was rocked again with the death of our beautiful daughter, Ngākau Raiona 21 weeks into pregnancy. I made a promise of presence to her in her final days, which ended up being her greatest gift to me. As I realised the depths that we can hold as humans, and the transformational power when we are present with death and other painful and difficult transitions in life.
Today, I blend my experience as a trauma informed AC certified Transformational coach, Holistic Grief Coach, End of Life Doula and former corporate leader to support others in their journey through life’s big transitional moments. Helping you not just survive life’s curveballs, but soften into them, listen deeply, and find your truest path forward through them. This is blended Grief, Life and Leadership coaching to help you navigate the griefy seasons of life that are so feared and avoided in our society. But those that if we are present to and willing to move through the pain & grief, can shape us the most.
Who is this programme for:
You're wildly capable - and yet the grief that you carry has you quietly wondering: is this really it?
This coaching journey is for you if the world doesn’t feel the same anymore after loss & grief.
Perhaps you have reached the career and life milestones you once longed for… but now you find yourself questioning if they are really making you happy?
You’re navigating a big transitional moment in life - whether the death of someone you love, a career shift, relationship ending, or a sense that you’re not quite aligned in your own life anymore.
You want to slow down. Tune in. And start making heart centred choices from within.
Navigated this ending, transition and grief without rushing or bypassing your experience. With tools to support your forwards journey with grief.
A deepened connection to your inner compass of values that drive you, voice and priorities in this life.
Clarity and momentum around whatever area of life currently feels foggy and impacted by loss & grief - e.g. identity, purpose, career or relationships.
More energy, clarity and confidence in who you are. Having walked a journey together of authentically becoming, that is rooted in deep alignment and understanding of your true value.
Set the boundaries and conditions required for you to thrive. Listening within to guide what is needed - whether that is in work, family, friends or anywhere else.
Deep permission to move at your pace - and to live a life that feels meaningful to YOU, and not just impressive in our materialistic world.
“Every hour spent with Tanya was both surprising and groundbreaking. We discussed life, work, love, London, and how I felt about the world around me and importantly how I felt about being in it. As she got to know me, she was subtly forming a plan of self development that was so powerful that I started to grow in a way that I didn’t know I needed.
We focused on body visualization, habit forming, meditation and many other forms of going inward to achieve the goals I had set out for myself - goals that were always in me but needed guidance from her to help “put pen to paper”. It was the people around me that started to notice changes in my presence, happiness and wellbeing, more so than ever before and I felt empowered to be living the best life I could for myself. When things weren’t rosey, she gave me the tools to deal with them and understand them more.”
Fiona Bewley, Business Development Director, The Trade Desk
1. One-to-one Zoom sessions with Tanya - choose from weekly, bi-weekly or deeper dive monthly
2. Unlimited WhatsApp (or other messaging platform) voice note coaching support in between our sessions.
3. BONUS: Option to upgrade your session to a 2 hour deep dive nature coaching session in Epping Forest every quarter at no extra cost.
I don’t believe that coaching should be cookie cutter. So we’ll work together to create a programme that is optimised to you. Starting with a free 60 minute coaching discovery, so that you can experience my coaching.
My most popular 1:1 coaching programme is £400 per month. Plus I also offer group coaching programmes. If you would prefer to journey as a group (at a lower investment). Hit the button and send me a message for the details of my next group grief coaching.
“A total game changer for me in terms of my journey with grief and loss, and I cannot recommend Tanya highly enough to anyone who has recently found themself in a similar situation.
Tanya held the space sensitively and was beautifully attuned to my responses and emotions. I felt safely guided to go inwards and breathe into my experiences.
She has such a calm and compassionate presence. Holding space so beautifully for me. It was the most meaningful one to one grief support I’ve experienced since my partner’s and grandmother’s deaths. My heart feeling safe enough to open to the grief I’ve been carrying for so many years.”
Anonymous
Is something within me asking for change?
Am I ready to meet this moment in my life with more presence, more alignment, more care?
This is about choosing to move forward with intention, care and connection.
When you're ready, I'm here.
And if you're not yet - I honour that too.
Your timing is sacred.
My promise to you: no pushy sales, no pressure
